I upgraded my kernel again today and now the LAN port shows up in the OS.
It works with both a cold boot and a warm reboot.
elyograg@legolas:~$ ip a
1: lo: <LOOPBACK,UP,LOWER_UP> mtu 65536 qdisc noqueue state UNKNOWN group default qlen 1000
link/loopback 00:00:00:00:00:00 brd 00:00:00:00:00:00
inet 127.0.0.1/8 scope host lo
valid_lft forever preferred_lft forever
inet6 ::1/128 scope host
valid_lft forever preferred_lft forever
2: eth0: <BROADCAST,MULTICAST,UP,LOWER_UP> mtu 1500 qdisc mq state UP group default qlen 1000
link/ether 54:10:ec:69:2a:04 brd ff:ff:ff:ff:ff:ff
inet 192.168.217.165/24 brd 192.168.217.255 scope global dynamic noprefixroute eth0
valid_lft 10776sec preferred_lft 10776sec
inet6 fe80::e711:cec1:6580:b9c9/64 scope link noprefixroute
valid_lft forever preferred_lft forever
3: enp1s0: <NO-CARRIER,BROADCAST,MULTICAST,UP> mtu 1500 qdisc fq_codel state DOWN group default qlen 1000
link/ether be:4f:ec:fc:14:a2 brd ff:ff:ff:ff:ff:ff
elyograg@legolas:~$ uname -a
Linux legolas 6.0.5-rockchip64 #22.08.8 SMP PREEMPT Fri Oct 28 15:15:06 UTC 2022 aarch64 aarch64 aarch64 GNU/Linux
elyograg@legolas:~$ lsb_release -a
No LSB modules are available.
Distributor ID: Ubuntu
Description: Ubuntu 22.04.1 LTS
Release: 22.04
Codename: jammy