I am trying to connect to my armbian install (on an orange pi 4 LTS) from OSX (with Xquartz) to run the mythtv backend setup.
 
	 
 
	I didn't install the desktop version of armbian; just the base version, and with the image for this model of pi.
 
	 
 
	connecting by SSH is not a problem, I happily get through.
 
	 
	The problem is, both with the -X and -Y options, I can't forward X successfully.
 
	 
 
	DISPLAY doesn't get passed.  On the Mac side, it's variously ":0" or something like "/private/tmp/com.apple.launchd.Cvf3IlZ6rM/org.xquartz:0" (which would have no meaning to another machine).
 
	 
 
	I've set to :0 ,  :0.0 , mymac.local:0 (after entering the ip in /etc/hosts).
 
	 
 
	I've used scp to transfer the .Xauthority file, and also to delete at armbian end.
 
	 
 
	I've used "/opt/X11/bin/xhost + mythbackend" and the reckless "/opt/X11/bin/xhost +"
 
	 
 
	In pretty much every combination, I get "xterm: Xt error: Can't open display: 10.0.1.11:0" or similar when trying to launch.  (when I set to mymac.local:0 it takes a couple of minutes before the similar message).
 
	 
 
	on the armbian, I've altered /etc/ssh/ssh_d to add "ForwardX11 yes".
 
	 
 
	Am I missing something?
 
	 
 
	25 years ago, I was blithely running into computer labs wherever I was and using terminals to connect to the box on my desk.  It's kind of frustrating to fail across the family room!
 
	 
 
	any ideas as to what I'm missing?