[How to set on power on GPIO behaviour (orange pi 5)?]

Hi,
I have orange pi 5. I searched all over internet for information how to set on startup/power on GPIO pins behavior, but i cannot find anything.
Most of GPIO pins are set to IN mode 1. Sadly I need them to output mode 1.
I am scared something could burn this way since i set them to though wiringPI after kernel boot sequence is complete.
Can some one give information how I can set them up at earlier point when I power on the board?
I found that DTB/DTS file could do it. But there is no clear information / pin addresses I should set.
Thanks in advance!
Regards!
 

[orangepi 3B - OS download]

Is it possible apt update/armbian-config flashed my SPI flash and that's why i have such issues ?

[orangepi 3B - OS download]

last image burned my ethernet port 😐
installed apt-get update / apt-get upgrade / reboot
and it stopped linking to my router even with static IP
tried my last ubuntu image and it's still not working
 

[    9.795160] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: Looking up phy-supply from device tree
[    9.795199] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: Looking up phy-supply property in node /ethernet@fe010000 failed
[    9.795234] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: no regulator found
[    9.795246] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: clock input or output? (input).
[    9.795259] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: TX delay(0x30).
[    9.795270] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: RX delay(0x10).
[    9.795291] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: integrated PHY? (no).
[    9.795367] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: clock input from PHY
[    9.795650] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: init for RGMII
[    9.796042] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: User ID: 0x30, Synopsys ID: 0x51
[    9.796060] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet:         DWMAC4/5
[    9.796074] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: DMA HW capability register supported
[    9.796083] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: RX Checksum Offload Engine supported
[    9.796091] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: TX Checksum insertion supported
[    9.796099] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: Wake-Up On Lan supported
[    9.796210] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: TSO supported
[    9.796222] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: Enable RX Mitigation via HW Watchdog Timer
[    9.796237] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: rk_get_eth_addr: use serial to generate eth mac address: 00:00:a4:ab:5f:fd
[    9.796247] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: rk_get_eth_addr: mac address: 00:00:a4:ab:5f:fd
[    9.796256] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: device MAC address 00:00:a4:ab:5f:fd
[    9.796266] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: TSO feature enabled
[    9.796277] rk_gmac-dwmac fe010000.ethernet: Using 32 bits DMA width

eth0: flags=4099<UP,BROADCAST,MULTICAST>  mtu 1500
        ether 00:00:a4:ab:5f:fd  txqueuelen 1000  (Ethernet)
        RX packets 16  bytes 1710 (1.7 KB)
        RX errors 0  dropped 0  overruns 0  frame 0
        TX packets 114  bytes 11820 (11.8 KB)
        TX errors 0  dropped 0 overruns 0  carrier 0  collisions 0
        device interrupt 41