I have found, what is an old issue, first noted long ago in https://stackoverflow.com/questions/45813755/linux-8250-rs485-rts-troubleshooting
The user has noted, what it possible misuse of TEMT\THRE IRQs.
Looking at 6.12 kernel 8250 drivers, i have found it was changed in the part what was the topic in stackoverflow post.
https://github.com/torvalds/linux/commit/b54f7a922d334014071ddaea313a045781024f4d
I am novice linux user and have lack of understanding many things, including tty to phys architecture and it settings.
Maybe im been able to try fix driver itself (have experience to write baremetal IRQ driver rs485 & uart drivers and modbus stack), but i have really big issues with linux modules building and etc.
There are also another evidence about RTS\RS485 issues on 8250 in links below.
And mention of some "RS485" state machine, "RS485 software emulation" what "may be buggy" in topic i cant find now.