@SteeMan Thank you for reply, apologies for my late return as Iam not allowed posting more than one post per day for safety reasons.
Thank you for clear instructions in your linked post, that is more or less how I understood balbes instructions but you made a clear indefinite procedure so we are on the same page.
When using your method I got same result as previously, the A95X logo flashing every 5 seconds and nothing more for 10-20 minutes, no linux boot scripts rolling on the screen, BUT, when going back to balbes ext-linux conf and booting normally (without toothpick) leaving the sd card in the box I got to my surprise some kind of success, the tv went black and I could see the amlogic box thinking about something but after 10-20 minutes still nothing, no boot text, no error message, nothing. This is success in that way that I hate the a95x boot flash video played on max volume so a completely silent a95 box is success and I have never got the a95 box to respond to the sd card before using your structure. The only dtb file giving any response is the meson-gxl-s905x-p212.dtb, Im unsure if I have tested all dtb files but Im getting there...sooo... I guess it is up to finding correct dtb ? Is there any way to get more precise in my troubleshooting, is there log files or similar I can read somewhere as in linux ? I have no worries about bricking the android box, it will be smashed to pieces soon as my patience is ending, when Im out of patience with something it will be smashed to small pieces just to get me piece of mind enabling me to forgive and forget.
One thing Ive been thinking about is that balena etcher always fails writing the image file complaining about the armbian files but writing same image with good old rufus always works, I cant see how that would cause any boot issues but its odd, I tried writing with winimage and that worked to with same files balena is nagging about but takes forever, hence rufus.
Edit : When reading my first post here I realize I dont get the error message of map file anymore but I have no knowledge judging if that is good or bad, prolly I just got the correct u-boot.etx script for the s905x3 ?
Edit 2 : Thank you for assistance (forgot to thank you).