@royk
Finally working for the spi bus.
As I didn't know what I may did wrong, I reinstalled the system, read better the doc as you suggested (the first example they show it's not the standard configuration, confusing for me at first), and finally I chose the right overlay.
My armbianEnv.txt is like this to make it works:
I'm using the cs0-cs1 because I will need both later as I will use rotary encoders.
I assume it will be the same for i2c bus, I will have to choose the right overlay.
I still don't know which one would be for the i2s, but I should find that somewhere in the documentation I hope.
Thanks for the answers and the tip for how to load user overlays.