After playing with my board yesterday I think everything is up to date. I used [sudo apt update] which did't seem to help. in the GUI i found software & updates under settings which didn't seem to help, then I ran the software updater which says it brought everything up to date.
that being said I still don't have audio from HDMI, I am getting audio from the 2.5 mm Jack on the board. (maybe this HDMI is not designed to have audio)
https://paste.armbian.com/inuhararit
I guess i've figured out how to do updates, should I mark this solved and start looking in other threads for the HDMI issue?