@n3o The members trying to help you are highly experienced. The important point here is for you not to treat their specific instructions as merely "suggestions" after which you go off and do your own thing. That is where the frustration lies.
Based on the energy other users and you have spent on this, I would just buy some other TV box or SBC that is already known to run Armbian without any issues instead of trying to resurrect an old tired piece of hardware. Unless you are really short on cash, this is what I would do. However, if you really are so short on cash that you cannot afford another $20USD on something else, then I believe your priorities are all wrong.
I have an H20 RK3228A tv box that is in transit that has some documented booting issues with Armbian. In a way, I am happy to see how this whole episode has progressed. I'm happy because now I know what NOT to do.