Interesting that yours doesn't freeze up on Segmentation fault etc.
I also have a suspicion that the amount and kind of drives installed as this has an effect on power drawer and possibly integrity of the 12V and 5V rails.
Grounds for the suspicion:
Suggestion to raise VDD to 0.95V to improve stability as done with other Rockhip RK3399 boards
Preventing the higher CPU frequencies makes it more stable. High CPU freqs are more demanding on power.
The fact they shipped the unit with big electrolytic capacitors soldered to the end of wires on the Sata loom. Seems like a way to help smooth power rails without having to redesign the board.
Various other hints here on the subject of VRMs, cpu governor settings, ramp time, latency etc in relation to the RK3399.
https://forum.odroid.com/viewtopic.php?t=30303
https://github.com/u-boot/u-boot/commit/f210cbc1f3d4f84baa595d83933369b4d6a529ea
https://github.com/u-boot/u-boot/commit/5a6d960b222203e60ab57e19b3eb7b41c24b564b
https://wiki.t-firefly.com/en/Firefly-RK3399/driver_pwm.html
http://patchwork.ozlabs.org/project/uboot/patch/20191128061433.1952869-2-anarsoul@gmail.com/
So, @mrjpaxton interested to know how many drives you have installed, and what type (5400, 7200, or SSD)?
Also a possibility is running fewer tasks on the unit means the CPU has less demand and the governor may by rarely, if at all, trying to switch into the higher problematic frequencies.
update: my unit still hasn't frozen again since last post with the 4000-14000 omdemand so things are looking pretty stable. so far so good anyway.