@prahal sorry for dropping off.
I was too lazy to build the needed version of the kernel, and before long, a new edge release came out, and the device was rock solid since then. Knock on wood.
(As a side note, I _do_ have a real problem with the hardware: after some research I figured that one of the two disk power circuits has gone bad, so now I have two disks (and SSD) working, and three slots empty.)
crosser@kobol:~$ uname -a
Linux kobol 6.12.1-edge-rockchip64 #1 SMP PREEMPT Fri Nov 22 14:30:26 UTC 2024 aarch64 aarch64 aarch64 GNU/Linux
crosser@kobol:~$ uptime
20:32:31 up 56 days, 12 min, 1 user, load average: 0.04, 0.05, 0.00
(last reboot to upgrade the kernel, no crashes for quite a while)