You don't have to do nothing different with other images, they just must be compatible with your hardware. I have never seen ethernet or wifi up in this box, so your alone in this.
The .dtb file that you use in extlinux.conf is the key for this hardware to work. I use rk3328_rock64.dtb because others seem to work well but in fact your loosing the gpu driver with them. With the correct .dtb file is very likely the net hardware would work, but this is a very dificult task. I use a RTL8812bu usb wifi adapter that is supported in armbian. In case you look for one you must make sure that there is a good linux driver for it. In fact you have a good one near you, because you can use your phone and activate usb tethering, this always works.