Not possible. You are not listening and reading what is written. Everything you claim, it is not working, works. If you are a noob why are you installing a kernel that is not fully compatible? Where did we put such instructions? If you are using armbian, you should only use kernels we prepare ... of course you can use other (compatible) kernels, but in that case, you have to understand what you are doing.
This forum is support for armbian builds, anything else is ignored. We don't support any 3rd party kernels since supporting own creations is already expensive enough. All this is written in the documentation, which is written with a reason that we don't waste time repeating things over and over again.
Again. This is your first start: https://docs.armbian.com/